No surprise: being back in my office feels remarkably like I've never left. I can't really get rolling on anything major until my colleague comes back from her grandfather's funeral (Wednesday). There's a lot in and I don't know what's up. Best to just wait and see. It does mean I can pretend that the office is all mine for the first 2 days, which is really a great thing.
lifecollage came for lunch, which was excellent. We crammed about 2 hours of conversation into 45 minutes. Having our occasional lunches means the world to me, so being able to have that back is a serious plus to being back in the office. My inbox is already sorted. I didn't really have anything major waiting for me like I would have if I was just gone on vacation for a week or so.
Last night I was anxious and negative. Mom called to see what I was going to wear today and I angsted about how I haven't bought any new clothes in who knows how long and waaaah waaah waaaah (so she went shopping for me). Apparently she also arranged for me to have a package waiting for me at work for my first day back, but sadly, it has not yet arrived. So I'll have it for my
second day back. So, even when one is the mom, having your mom be super-mom at you is sort of made of awesome. Very much reminiscent of going away to camp and getting a care package.
I got one call from Ariel asking how the stroller works early in the day- and at least at that time, all was well. I'm choosing not to call to check in. He's fine. They're both fine. It's fiiiiiine.
( breast feeding thing, short, but not everyone cares. )Speaking of Crime Fighter: Fun developmental bits- He found the Baby In The Mirror not that long ago (a week or so?)- I'd been trying: stopping in front of the mirror, waiting, but he was pretty meh about what I was doing until maybe last week or so. Now he lights up and smiiiiles! Then he'll act all coy and crazy-adorable. Yesterday was a huge breakthrough: He reached out and tried to touch the reflection! So cool. Watching him learn how to be a human is more fun than I was expecting. It makes me re-evaluate the little things like eye-hand coordination and object permanence.
quiet_elegance is still working on finding his next gig, which may be complicated by the bit where there's a holiday next week. He's having a somewhat hard time dealing with the grind of constantly being under-employed. Except when he's not. There have been a few weeks where he worked a full week with some overtime, then went to teach out in Millbury 4 nights of that week. It will be OK, but not yet. In the meantime, he's focused on a quick gig for
ahf and
caulay. That will roll into supplies for
mzkero's project, which is the basis of our carpentry/kid care swap, so kind of really important.
(A hiccup in baby care is that Ariel's gotten a full time job with benefits, which is fantastic because benefits is sort of a requirement in life, a thing I'd not be able to offer (duh). But it means that a go-to care provider is no longer default. Possibly occasional care, but I'm going with "not available" as it's easier to plan that way for the moment. )
Anyway- In talking to lifecollage at lunch about this and that, she reminded me that there's this thing- the
Artisan's Asylum. Duh! That might be the solution he's been looking for on the issue of "I have no space." He has a few peripheral jobs that have been hanging over his head that would be good to have done, already, but he's always been dependent on doing stuff outside or have it be influenced by the cold and/or wet (finish work is tricky). So, this may well be the solution. If he likes it, which he may not. I'm crazy-hopeful.
So-- overall, I feel like things are reasonable to quite good.